No one likes to go to a boring wedding party, least of all the bride. Every bride wants to lose the stress and let her hair down. Here are 5 sure-fire ways to do this.
1) Get all the Details Nailed Down Prior to the Big Day
Brides who do not this are going to be more at ease. This way they can enjoy the nuptials and then party with their friends at the afterparty. The afterparty is what it is all about anyway. Enjoy it.
2) There is No Such Thing as The Best, but There Are Those Who Come Pretty Close to It
Get in touch with these people and nail the date down. Brides who hire the best will get the best. Your wedding day is not a day for you to be concerned about the food and beverage detail. Leave this to the people you hired. Hit the dance floor and fill up on drinks with your friends.
3) There Are Going to be Few Snags Along the Way
Do not let this stress you. Pick your battles on your wedding day. This goes for the wedding party too. Tackle the important issues and leave the rest on the floor. Too many brides like to get too controlling. They concern themselves with the color of the napkins instead of showing off their best moves on the floor. Something is going to be out of place. Let it go and keep everything in perspective.
4) The Best Thing You Can Do is Hire a Consultant
Hire a gay guy who likes to fuss over all the particulars. We love to do this sort of thing. We will worry about all the insignificant stuff for you. Hiring a consultant will take away about 80% of your issues. Hire someone you mesh well with. Do not hire someone who is going to undo everything you wanted. Make sure both of you are on the same page. Make sure he or she will convey everything you want and in your style.
Sometimes it is better to hold an interview process for this. Get a feeling for the person you are looking to hire. You can learn a lot about a person just by talking to them for a few minutes. Brides, you do not want to hire Bridezilla either. Keep a balance.
5) Hire Someone you Trust.
This is where the interview process comes in handy. Do not leave anything up to chance on your big day. There has to be a complete trust in the person or it is not going to work. The last thing you want is to come across a problem when you are about to hear a toast. You also do not want to come across someone who will undo every aspect of your dream wedding in two seconds.
Follow these steps and your and your guests will have a more enjoyable time.